Topic is Sleeping.
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 12:42 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
I am very near the end of the divorce/trial
I appreciate everyone here. You literally saved my life.
Friends saved my life.
I will post more when it is decided finally but for the next few days and well wishes would be very much appreciated. For all concerned.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:00 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Good luck Shehawk. I hope everything goes smoothly!!!
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 1:29 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Good luck! We're all rooting for you.
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:39 AM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Goodluck! I pray everything goes how you wish it to.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 5:46 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Good luck, Shehawk! The end is near!!!! Then you can start your new wonderfull life!
BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 6:31 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Well wishes for the best outcome for you. I can hardly wait to be divorced myself to have an ending to this era in my life!
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Sending you all the good mojo and good luck and everything!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:23 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Good luck and hoping for a favorable outcome!
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
BallofAnxiety ( member #82853) posted at 9:38 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
Fingers crossed for you. Keep us posted!
Me: BW. XWH: ONS 2006; DDay 12/2022 "it was only online," trickle truth until 1/2023 - "it was 1 year+ affair with MCOW." Divorced 4/2024.
Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 10:39 PM on Thursday, August 3rd, 2023
My divorce is final.
I will post more later.
He told me if I left him he would break me. He did not succeed.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
He told me if I left him he would break me. He did not succeed.
I LOVE this !!!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
LearningToJoy ( new member #80732) posted at 12:04 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
You are a badass! Well done. It's so satisfying to prove XH wrong.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 12:18 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:59 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
YYYYAAAAASSSSS. You did great, Shehawk!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
kiwilee ( member #10426) posted at 5:14 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
So glad to hear you are DONE!! Onward and upward!
JammyWheel ( member #80828) posted at 2:01 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
Reddirtman ( new member #77340) posted at 8:25 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
Awesome news!
Now go out and live that wonderful life that’s in front of you.
BrokenheartedUK ( member #43520) posted at 9:42 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
Congratulations!!!! Your divorce, like your Ex, is in the rear view mirror. Like roadkill.
Me: BS
He cheated and then lied. Apparently cheaters lie. Huh. 13 months of false R. Divorced! 8/16 3 teenage kids
"The barn's burnt down
Now
I can see the moon"
-Mizuta Masahide
Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 10:51 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023
BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!
Trapped74 ( member #49696) posted at 12:23 AM on Saturday, August 5th, 2023
Congratulations!! FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMM!
Many DDays. Me (BW) 49 Him (WH) 52 Happily detached and compartmentalized.
Topic is Sleeping.
